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적반하장 jeok-ban-ha-jang
The ultimate internet comeback for when the person caught red-handed tries to spin themselves as the injured party.
What does 적반하장 mean?
적반하장 (jeok-ban-ha-jang) means: The ultimate internet comeback for when the person caught red-handed tries to spin themselves as the injured party.
Speakers use this expression to call out public figures, trolls, or wrongdoers who attempt to flip the narrative and play the victim when exposed. It frequently appears in online discussions, comment threads, and arguments where accountability is being shifted. It often combines with verbs of reaction and attack, such as coming out with the attitude, arguing back, or getting angry, and frequently appears alongside the intensifying phrase 유분수지.
In online comment wars, this can sound sharp and dismissive, turning an opponent's defensive posturing back onto them as proof of bad faith.
In online comment wars, this can sound sharp and dismissive, turning an opponent's defensive posturing back onto them as proof of bad faith.
Other sides of 적반하장
◆ Corporate Accountability — Speakers reach for this word when someone at fault reacts defensively by shifting blame onto the person they wronged. It appears in situations where a boss or coworker who made a mistake turns the situation around to reprimand a subordinate. It commonly appears in frozen phrases like 적반하장도 유분수지, and combines with verbs of action and reaction such as 나오다, 따지다, 성을 내다, and 화를 내다.
In an office setting, hearing this from a superior who caused an error can feel particularly destabilizing for a subordinate, as it abruptly inverts responsibility and challenges basic workplace fairness.
◆ Family Gaslighting — Speakers use this expression when a person who committed a wrongdoer reacts with anger, accusation, or indignation toward the person who points it out or is affected by it. It often appears in fixed idiomatic combinations such as 적반하장으로 나오다, 적반하장으로 따지다, 적반하장으로 성을 내다, and 적반하장으로 화를 내다. It also pairs with the emphatic expression 유분수지 to criticize the extremity of the behavior.
In familial contexts, this reaction can feel particularly destabilizing because the counter-attack from an elder or family member completely invalidates the original grievance, shifting the burden of guilt onto the person who raised the issue.
In an office setting, hearing this from a superior who caused an error can feel particularly destabilizing for a subordinate, as it abruptly inverts responsibility and challenges basic workplace fairness.
◆ Family Gaslighting — Speakers use this expression when a person who committed a wrongdoer reacts with anger, accusation, or indignation toward the person who points it out or is affected by it. It often appears in fixed idiomatic combinations such as 적반하장으로 나오다, 적반하장으로 따지다, 적반하장으로 성을 내다, and 적반하장으로 화를 내다. It also pairs with the emphatic expression 유분수지 to criticize the extremity of the behavior.
In familial contexts, this reaction can feel particularly destabilizing because the counter-attack from an elder or family member completely invalidates the original grievance, shifting the burden of guilt onto the person who raised the issue.
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How it's actually used
- 지수는 자기 실수는 모른 체하고 남의 탓을 하며 적반하장으로 나왔다.
ji-sun-neun ja-gi sil-su-neun mo-reun che-ha-go nam-ui tat-eul ha-m-yeo jeok-ban-ha-jang-eu-ro na-wat-da.
Jisoo ignored her own mistake, blamed others, and had the nerve to turn things around.
💡 Shows someone deflecting blame and attacking the other person. - 사고를 낸 사람은 오히려 내 책임을 따지면서 적반하장으로 화를 냈다.
sa-go-reul naen sa-ram-eun o-hi-ryeo nae chaek-im-eul tta-ji-m-yeo-seo jeok-ban-ha-jang-eu-ro hwa-reul naet-da.
The person who caused the accident instead questioned my responsibility and angrily turned the tables.
💡 Shows the guilty party getting angry at the victim. - 적반하장도 유분수지.
jeok-ban-ha-jang-do yu-bun-su-ji.
There is a limit to having the nerve (you've gone too far).
💡 A standalone retort calling out an unreasonable counter-attack.
Related words in Social Situations
적당히 jeokdanghi정신차려 jeong-sin-cha-ryeo정신을 차리다 jeongsineul charida정신이 없다 jeongsini eopda직진 jik-jin