Nuance Dictionary / Culture & Language
정나미가 떨어지다 jeong-na-mi-ga tteo-reo-ji-da
For even jeong to drop away — being pushed past the point of any emotional investment
What does 정나미가 떨어지다 mean?
정나미가 떨어지다 (jeong-na-mi-ga tteo-reo-ji-da) means: For even jeong to drop away — being pushed past the point of any emotional investment.
**Jeongnami** is the psychological foundation that allows *jeong* (deep emotional bonding and affection) to grow. If this foundation is lost—most commonly used in the phrase *jeongnami-ga tteoreojida* (to lose all *jeongnami*)—it means the relationship has reached a point where no *jeong* can ever be formed again. It is an incredibly strong expression used to convey complete emotional detachment or feeling utterly repulsed by someone.
🔊 From the story above
정이 들다 — jeong-i deul-da, "for jeong to form"
어느새 정이 들었어 — eo-neu-sae jeong-i deu-reo-sseo, "Before I knew it, jeong had formed"
정 때문에 — jeong ttae-mu-ne, "because of jeong"
정 떼다 — jeong tte-da, "to sever the jeong bond"
정 끊다 — jeong kkeun-ta, "to cut off jeong"
한번 와서 밥 먹어 — han-beon wa-seo bap meo-geo, "Come over sometime and eat"
우리 엄마 — u-ri eom-ma, "our mom"
팍팍한 삶 — pak-pak-han sam, "a harsh, dry life"
Other sides of 정나미가 떨어지다
◆ The 'Ick' in Romance — Textbooks translate this as 'to lose affection,' but that sounds far too clinical for how brutal this phrase actually is in the wild. *Jeong-namiga tteo-reo-ji-da* is the exact linguistic equivalent of getting the 'ick.' It’s not about cheating or massive betrayals; it's when he smacks his lips while eating soup, or she loudly haggles with a convenience store worker over fifty won, and suddenly, every ounce of your romantic fog instantly evaporates, replaced by visceral disgust.
◆ Professional Disillusionment — Textbooks teach you this means 'to lose affection,' but in the wild office jungle, it's the exact sound of a soul checking out permanently. When management preaches 'family spirit' while cutting corners or throwing underlings under the bus, natives don't just get mad—their *jeong* simply evaporates, leaving behind a terrifyingly polite, weaponized indifference. Learners often confuse it with standard anger, but true *jeongnamiga tteo-reo-ji-da* is quieter; it’s the moment you stop caring if the whole sinking ship catches fire.
◆ Fandom Betrayal — When a bias crosses a line—whether it's a messy personal scandal, arrogant fan-meeting behavior, or tone-deaf apologies—this is the exact phrase stans drop in group chats and on X (formerly Twitter). It captures that hollow, cold feeling of waking up from a delusion and realizing you wasted years streaming for someone who doesn't care. It’s not just anger; it's the sudden, irreversible evaporation of affection.
◆ Professional Disillusionment — Textbooks teach you this means 'to lose affection,' but in the wild office jungle, it's the exact sound of a soul checking out permanently. When management preaches 'family spirit' while cutting corners or throwing underlings under the bus, natives don't just get mad—their *jeong* simply evaporates, leaving behind a terrifyingly polite, weaponized indifference. Learners often confuse it with standard anger, but true *jeongnamiga tteo-reo-ji-da* is quieter; it’s the moment you stop caring if the whole sinking ship catches fire.
◆ Fandom Betrayal — When a bias crosses a line—whether it's a messy personal scandal, arrogant fan-meeting behavior, or tone-deaf apologies—this is the exact phrase stans drop in group chats and on X (formerly Twitter). It captures that hollow, cold feeling of waking up from a delusion and realizing you wasted years streaming for someone who doesn't care. It’s not just anger; it's the sudden, irreversible evaporation of affection.
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How it's actually used
- 그가 거짓말하는 걸 보고 진짜 정나미가 떨어졌어.
geuga geojinmalhaneun geol bogo jinjja jeongnamiga tteoreojyeosseo.
After seeing him lie, I completely lost all affection and care for him.
💡 Stronger than just being disappointed. - 친구의 이기적인 행동에 순식간에 정나미가 떨어졌지.
chingueui igijeogin haengdongs-e sunsigan-e jeongnamiga tteoreojyeotji.
My affection plummeted instantly because of my friend's selfish behavior.
💡 Describes the sudden evaporation of warm feelings. - 아무리 친했던 친구라도 거짓말을 반복하니까 정말 정나미가 떨어지더라고요.
amuri chinhaetdeon chingurado geojismareul banbokhanikka jeongmal jeongnamiga tteoreojidoragoyo.
No matter how close we were, once they kept lying, I completely lost all lingering affection for them.
💡 Used to describe a sudden, irreversible loss of warmth or patience.
Related words in Culture & Language
한 (恨) han억울하다 eok-ul-ha-da서럽다 seo-reop-da풀다 pul-da판소리 pan-so-ri