Nuance Dictionary / Culture & Language
멀었다 meol-eot-da
To be far away — metaphorically 'not there yet'
What does 멀었다 mean?
멀었다 (meol-eot-da) means: To be far away — metaphorically 'not there yet'.
When speaking about one's own skills or achievements, saying 'I still have a long way to go' becomes the perfect expression to simultaneously show both a thirst for growth and humility.
🔊 From the story above
겸손 — Gyeom-son
감사합니다 — gamsahamnida, "thank you"
과찬 — Gwa-chan
아직 멀었어요 — ajik meol-eosseoyo, "I still have a long way to go"
멀었다 — meol-eot-da
덕분 — deok-bun, "thanks to / grace of"
부족하다 — Bujok-hada
손사래 — sonsarae, "waving the hand side to side in refusal"
Other sides of 멀었다
◆ Skill Modesty & Critique — Textbooks teach you this means 'far,' but natives wield it as a surgical instrument of social calibration. When praising your Korean, a native saying '아직 멀었어요' isn't fishing for a compliment—it’s an automatic reflex of cultural modesty. Conversely, if a boss or senior uses it on your work, it’s a heavy-handed reality check that stings because it strips away all illusion of progress.
◆ Relational Awkwardness — Textbooks teach you this word simply means 'far away,' but natives use it as an emotional tape measure for intimacy. When you are hanging out with someone new and the conversation keeps tripping over polite honorifics and forced laughter, that invisible gap is what 멀었다 measures. It’s not about physical distance; it’s the quiet acknowledgment that you two still need time before you can drop the act and truly click.
◆ Societal Cynicism — When Koreans scroll through news comments or online forums about political corruption, rude subway passengers, or corporate greed, '멀었다' is the automatic sigh of despair. It transforms a simple statement about physical distance into a cynical diagnosis of human nature and national progress. Textbooks teach you this means 'it is far,' but natives use it to convey systemic hopelessness—the quiet, bitter realization that things won't get better in our lifetime.
◆ Relational Awkwardness — Textbooks teach you this word simply means 'far away,' but natives use it as an emotional tape measure for intimacy. When you are hanging out with someone new and the conversation keeps tripping over polite honorifics and forced laughter, that invisible gap is what 멀었다 measures. It’s not about physical distance; it’s the quiet acknowledgment that you two still need time before you can drop the act and truly click.
◆ Societal Cynicism — When Koreans scroll through news comments or online forums about political corruption, rude subway passengers, or corporate greed, '멀었다' is the automatic sigh of despair. It transforms a simple statement about physical distance into a cynical diagnosis of human nature and national progress. Textbooks teach you this means 'it is far,' but natives use it to convey systemic hopelessness—the quiet, bitter realization that things won't get better in our lifetime.
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How it's actually used
- 제 실력은 아직 프로가 되려면 멀었어요.
je sillyeogeun ajik peuroga doeryeomyeon meoreosseoyo.
My skills are still a long way from being professional.
💡 Used to modestly downplay one's current ability. - 유창하게 말하려면 아직 멀었지 뭐.
yuchanghage malharyeomyeon ajik meoreotji mwo.
I still have a long way to go before I can speak fluently.
💡 A common self-deprecating remark when learning a new skill. - 원어민처럼 말하려면 아직 멀었어요.
Woneomincheoreom malharyeomyeon ajik meoreosseoyo.
I still have a long way to go before I can speak like a native.
💡 Use this to deflect high praise regarding language skills.
Related words in Culture & Language
덕분 deok-bun들뜨다 deul-tteu-da기대되다 gi-dae-doe-da두근거리다 du-geun-geo-ri-da벅차다 beok-cha-da