What does 체면 mean?
체면 (che-myeon) means: Face / social prestige.
Not just simple pride, but the minimum level of formality and 'face' one must maintain to uphold social relationships.
◆ Public dignity and social harmony — Far deeper than mere pride. It is the social glue that keeps interpersonal friction low by ensuring neither party loses dignity in public or private interactions. Maintaining face means protecting both your own standing and the other person's comfort.
◆ Public dignity and social harmony — Far deeper than mere pride. It is the social glue that keeps interpersonal friction low by ensuring neither party loses dignity in public or private interactions. Maintaining face means protecting both your own standing and the other person's comfort.
🔊 From the story above
아니요 — a-ni-yo, "no"
체면 — che-myeon, "face / social prestige"
쿠션어 — ku-syeon-eo, "cushion words"
여의치 않다 — yeo-ui-chi an-ta, "circumstances are unfavorable"
어렵다 — eo-ryeop-da, "difficult"
그건 좀 어려울 것 같아요 — geu-geon jom eo-ryeo-ul geot ga-ta-yo, "That seems a bit difficult"
고민해보다 — go-min-hae-bo-da, "to think it over / ponder"
고민해볼게요 — go-min-hae-bol-ge-yo, "I'll think about it"
🔊 From part 2’s story
사양하다 — Sa-yang-ha-da
체면 — che-myeon, "social face — the invisible boundary of mutual dignity"
권유하다 — gwon-yu-ha-da, "to recommend or urge warmly with hospitality"
염치 — yeom-chi, "a sense of propriety and acute awareness of unearned favors"
염치없다 — yeomchi-eopda, "shameless, without basic social propriety"
정말 배부릅니다 — a-nim-ni-da, jeong-mal bae-bu-reum-ni-da
그럼 조금만 주십시오 — geureom jogumman jusipsio
아닙니다 — listen & repeat
Other sides of 체면
◆ social_tax_and_formality — In textbooks, 체면 is translated as 'face' or 'honor,' which makes it sound abstract and noble. In reality, it is often a financial trap. Natives use it when complaining about blowing a month's salary on a distant relative's wedding envelope (축의금) just because 'what will people say?' The nuance here isn't about saving face; it's about the exhausting, unspoken tax of keeping up appearances in a hyper-judgmental social matrix.
◆ generational_guilt_trip — Textbooks define 체면 as 'face' or 'social honor,' but when deployed in a family argument, it is pure generational emotional blackmail. Natives don't just 'lose' or 'save' it; older generations wield it like a loaded gun to make you feel like your personal decisions—like changing careers, marrying late, or dyeing your hair—are a direct public insult to their reputation. If an elder sighs and brings this up, the conversation is no longer about logic; it's about making you feel intensely selfish for daring to live your own life.
◆ vulnerability_blocker — Textbooks teach *che-myeon* as 'face' or 'social reputation,' but in intimate relationships, it acts as an emotional armor-plating that turns toxic. When a native reaches for this word in a fight, they aren't just talking about pride; they are describing that internal paralysis where admitting fault feels like a total erasure of self-respect. Learners often miss that *che-myeon* is rarely about what outsiders think—it’s the pathetic theater we put on for ourselves to avoid confronting our own desperate need for the other person.
◆ generational_guilt_trip — Textbooks define 체면 as 'face' or 'social honor,' but when deployed in a family argument, it is pure generational emotional blackmail. Natives don't just 'lose' or 'save' it; older generations wield it like a loaded gun to make you feel like your personal decisions—like changing careers, marrying late, or dyeing your hair—are a direct public insult to their reputation. If an elder sighs and brings this up, the conversation is no longer about logic; it's about making you feel intensely selfish for daring to live your own life.
◆ vulnerability_blocker — Textbooks teach *che-myeon* as 'face' or 'social reputation,' but in intimate relationships, it acts as an emotional armor-plating that turns toxic. When a native reaches for this word in a fight, they aren't just talking about pride; they are describing that internal paralysis where admitting fault feels like a total erasure of self-respect. Learners often miss that *che-myeon* is rarely about what outsiders think—it’s the pathetic theater we put on for ourselves to avoid confronting our own desperate need for the other person.
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How it's actually used
- 아이 앞에서 부모 체면이 있지, 화를 참아야지.
ai ap-eseo bumo chemyeon-i it-ji, hwa-reul cham-aya-ji.
You have to keep your dignity as a parent in front of your kid, so you need to hold your temper.
💡 Often used to emphasize maintaining dignity in front of juniors or children. - 친구들한테 빌리기는 체면이 안 서서 못하겠어.
chingudeul-hante billigi-neun chemyeon-i an seo-seo mot-hagesseo.
I can't bring myself to ask my friends for money because it hurts my pride.
💡 ‘체면이 서다/안 서다’ is the most common collocation for losing or saving face. - 이번에 실패하면 진짜 체면이 말이 아닌데 큰일 났네.
ibeone silpaehamyeon jinjja chemyeoni mari anindekeunil natne.
If I fail this time, I'll completely lose face—I'm in big trouble.
💡 Commonly used in informal worries about reputation or social standing.
Related words in Culture & Language
완곡하다 wan-gok-ha-da여의치 않다 yeo-ui-chi an-ta쿠션어 ku-syeon-eo겸손 gyeom-son과찬 gwa-chan