Nuance Dictionary / People & Relationships
썸남 sseom-nam
A male object of mutual, unspoken romantic interest who hasn't been officially locked down as a boyfriend yet.
What does 썸남 mean?
썸남 (sseom-nam) means: A male object of mutual, unspoken romantic interest who hasn't been officially locked down as a boyfriend yet.
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How it's actually used
- 야, 요즘 너 만나는 그 사람, 그냥 썸남이야 아니면 진짜야?
ya, yo-jeum neo man-naneun geu saram, geunyang sseom-namiya animyeon jinjaya?
Hey, that guy you've been seeing lately—is he just a sseom-nam or are you guys official?
💡 How close friends playfully interrogate you about whether the ambiguous stage is about to end. - 썸남한테 카톡 왔는데 뭐라고 답장할지 한 시간째 고민 중이야.
sseom-nam-hante katok wat-neunde mworago dapjang-halji han sigan-jjae gomin jung-iya.
My sseom-nam just text me and I've been agonizing over what to reply for an hour.
💡 Reveals the weaponized overthinking that defines the entire existence of having a sseom-nam.
Related words in People & Relationships
썸녀 sseom-nyeo여사친 yeo-sa-chin손길 son-gil뒷모습 dwit-mo-seup시선 si-seon