Nuance Dictionary / Grammar
완곡어법 wan-gok-eoh-beop
Indirect or softened expression style that avoids blunt statements
What does 완곡어법 mean?
완곡어법 (wan-gok-eoh-beop) means: Indirect or softened expression style that avoids blunt statements.
Direct demands sound harsh in Korean conversational culture. Wrapping a wish in a conditional structure is the ultimate diplomatic tool.
🔊 From the story above
었으면 — Ass-eoss-eu-myeon
돈이 많았으면 좋겠어요 — don-i man-ass-eu-myeon jo-ket-sseo-yo, "I wish I had a lot of money"
거리두기 — geo-ri-du-gi, "creating psychological distance"
가정 — ga-jeong, "hypothesis or assumption"
소망 — so-mang, "a deep, earnest wish for something currently absent"
한국어가 더 쉬웠으면 좋겠어요 — han-gu-geo-ga deo swi-woss-eu-myeon jo-ket-sseo-yo, "I wish Korean were easier"
시간이 더 있었으면 좋겠어요 — si-gan-i deo iss-eoss-eu-myeon jo-ket-sseo-yo, "I wish I had more time"
좋겠다 — jo-ket-da, "that would be nice"
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How it's actually used
- 부장님의 거절은 완곡어법이었는데, 눈치 없는 동기가 그걸 곧이곧대로 믿었어.
bu-jang-nim-ui geo-jeol-eun wan-gog-eo-beob-i-eot-neun-de, nun-chi eobs-neun dong-gi-ga geu-geol got-i-got-dae-ro mid-eoss-eo.
The manager's refusal was just an indirect expression, but the clueless coworker took it completely literally.
💡 Highlights misinterpreting soft social cues. - 한국 사회에서는 직접적인 비판보다 완곡어법을 써서 상대방의 체면을 지켜주는 게 미덕이에요.
han-guk sa-hoe-e-seo-neun jik-jeop-jeok-in bi-pan-bo-da wan-gog-eo-beob-eul sseo-seo sang-dae-bang-ui che-myeon-eul ji-kyeo-ju-neun ge mi-deog-i-eyo.
In Korean society, using softened expressions rather than direct criticism to save the other person's face is considered a virtue.
💡 Explains the cultural function of indirect speech. - 상대방 기분이 상하지 않게 완곡어법을 쓰려다 보니 오히려 내 의도가 제대로 전달되지 않았어.
sang-dae-bang gibun-i sang-ha-ji anh-ge wan-gog-eo-beob-eul sseo-ryeo-da bo-ni o-hi-ryeo nae ui-do-ga je-dae-ro jeon-dal-doe-ji anh-ass-eo.
Trying to use indirect phrasing so as not to hurt their feelings actually ended up obscuring my original intent.
💡 Points out the downside of excessive politeness.
Related words in Grammar
잡수시다 jap-su-si-da주무시다 ju-mu-si-da편찮으시다 pyeon-chan-eu-si-da돌아가시다 dol-a-ga-si-da인용 in-yong